Monica’s opinions on the world around her. Politics, news, business, environment and family!

Groundhog Day supper at the community center

by Monica

Tonight I wanted to go to the Community Center to their annual Groundhog Day supper that is put on by the local Ruritan club. I’m pretty sure that I haven’t gone to their previous years dinners, but I could be mistaken. I was hoping that my hubby and son would come with me, but they elected to stay home. Usually I hesitate to go to something like that alone, but I’m tired of not ever going to things like that because I’m the only one that wants to go!

So I went by myself, and sat with a couple I had never met before tonight. They were friendly enough and we shared a few laughs, and actually the lady of the couple confided in my that she had recently suffered the loss of her mother, which brought tears to her eyes. I empathized with her and extended my condolences. By the time we finished eating I think I convinced her to come to the next Ruritan meeting where I hope to see them again.


The weekly networking group

by Monica

For several years now I’ve been attending a weekly business networking meeting at a local restaurant. Fortunately for the group they have found a restaurant that allows them to meet there without any charge. The hope is that the participants will actually order and pay for something, but I’ve noticed that most of the time the participants only order a cup of coffee. (Which really is too bad, I think that people should eat a meal there too, there is good food and the prices are very reasonable.)

The organization is loosely modeled after an organization called BNI, but there are several differences. One difference is the fact that there are no dues charged. Another is that the group welcomes more than one business of the same type. And the people who run the group frequently remind everyone that attends that there are “no rules.”

Normally at the meetings one of the members shares an educational moment with the group, someone stands up and explains the purpose of the group, and everyone takes a minute to introduce themselves to the entire group and give a very brief description of their business and state what they are looking for from the group that day. Also as part of the meeting one of the members has a ten minute presentation to talk about themselves and their product. Last week’s speaker was a really great presentation by a businessman who sells customized top of the line business apparel. Next week’s speaker is a person who owns an Advertising Agency. The week after that is a woman who works for the area’s Chamber of Commerce. I’ve learned a lot from these meetings!


Apartment Mailbox Issues

by Monica

We have some low income apartment buildings located just a few blocks down the road from our place. It is such a run down, horrible looking place, owned by one of the well known slum lords in the city. The majority of the tenants are Latinos, who are just trying to make a living and take care of their families, just like most of us are doing and I have no problem with that. It’s a darn shame that these apartments were kept up better, and I know that I’m not the only one that feels that way.

When we walk or drive by you can see how bad it is. The broken bottles, trash and other various litter issues are a huge issue, inside and out. Right inside the doorway you can see that they need a better type of apartment mailboxes. The current ones are all busted, doors missing or hanging off which leaves their mail totally unsecured and strewn all about the door yard and hallway. I know that a better set of  cbu mailboxes set out front of the buildings would be in order here and I’ve called and left numerous messages with the business office asking them to look into the purchasing of and installing some good quality  cluster mailboxes for their tenants. They deserve to have their US mail safe and secure just like anyone else does. Slumlords are the worse, I wish there was something else that I could do for these people.


Local Wineries

by Monica

One of the things that surprised me quite a bit when I moved here was the abundance of local wineries!  It seems that almost every major road that I drive down has signs advertising local wineries.  I had always been given the impression that the Napa Valley in California was “the place” to get good American wine.

Au contraire!  The Gray Ghost winery in Amissville VA has wonderful wine!  I had the opportunity to taste their 2006 Adieu wine at a wine tasting party that a friend held, and I fell in love with it.  I had to go to the winery myself and buy a couple of bottles of it to have for special occasions.

After I learned about The Gray Ghost winery, I went on the Internet to find their location, and found their website.  I was impressed to learn that they have won numerous awards for the wines.  I think that the Gray Ghost is giving the Napa Valley some competition!


Working from home opportunities

by Monica

Over the past couple of weeks I’ve been finding some work at home opportunities that are worth considering. In the past, the only work at home opportunities I even ever heard of was the dreaded “stuff envelopes” scam. Now I’m finding some that sound like they are legitimate – doing research at home, and providing technical support at home. Both of those jobs require some computer literacy (which I think I have) and they sound as if they are jobs that I could do. The only drawback that I can see is that they are low paying independent contractor jobs. That means that I’ll get paid even less money because I have to pay the self-employment taxes on the money that I would earn. So I’m not sure if I even want to bother with it, because the pay is so low. Something that I have to think about, that is for sure.